Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method

@thepromisemethod

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I say the quiet parts of midlife out loud to un-fuck your good-girl conditioning. 01 Oct Promise Method NOW OPEN ⬇️ Cohost @theunashamedpromise🎙️

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Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on August 22, 2026. May be an image of one or more people, bangs, people smiling, turtleneck and text that says 'Ⅰ I was capable. Driven. Good Goodat.holdingmyshitogether. at holding my shit together.'.PinnedVideo

Every midlife woman has a story. This is mine. The thing I thought had ruined my life became the reason I…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on July 03, 2026. May be a selfie of one or more people.PinnedVideo

Turns out I didn’t stop batch cooking because I couldn’t be arsed. I stopped because I couldn’t keep living…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on May 31, 2026.PinnedVideo

“What’s for tea?” Midlife women know this question isn’t really about food. It’s about being needed again…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 26, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people, people standing and text.Video

Midlife ladies, doors are open. If you’re sick of knowing what you need and then overriding yourself because…

Photo by @thewildgracesociety on September 26, 2026. May be an image of text. 7 items, carousel

"She did not know where she was going but she knew she was not alone and somehow that was enough." Today, we…

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 25, 2026. 20 items, carousel

I nearly made 2 sales mean I’d failed. Then I remembered this is literally what The Promise Method is about…

Photo by Em | saving to leave the UK for good 🇻🇳 on September 25, 2026. 6 items, carousel

Yesterday @thepromisemethod invited women to post in support of @figuring_out_finances_at_40 in order for…

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 24, 2026. 15 items, carousel

You’re not confused. You’re conditioned. You know what you need. You’ve just got very fucking good at…

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 24, 2026. 20 items, carousel

The internet moves on. Lucy can’t. One woman. One mantra. One day at a time. Mine: I will let myself be…

Video by Sarah Chamberlain on September 24, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people, poster, tinfoil and text.Video

You're not a lazy Bitch. New episode out Monday 28th September @theunashamedpromise

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 23, 2026. 18 items, carousel

Christmas doesn’t create the problem. It exposes it. 66 days of putting yourself back on your own fucking…

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 22, 2026. May be an image of text. 14 items, carousel

The diagnosis we didn’t want happened. Lucy @figuring_out_finances_at_40 has acute leukaemia. She’s doing…

Video by Sarah Chamberlain on September 22, 2026. May be a graphic of one or more people, magazine, screen, microphone, poster and text.Video

Not bad for amateurs! Thank you...S1 E2 coming 28 September .... 🎤🎤 #unashamed #newpodcast #midlife

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 21, 2026. May be a selfie of one or more people and text that says 'have 206,000 206, 000 followers. Today, I need you to do something with me.'.Video

Lucy from @figuring_out_finances_at_40 has shared she’s in hospital. Her life has already been turned upside…

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 20, 2026. 16 items, carousel

I spent years being very fucking good. Easy. Capable. Helpful. Fine. Meanwhile I was swallowing no after no…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 19, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people and text that says 'Good girls aren't meant to admit they'd quite like the family holiday without the family.'.Video

I used to have thoughts like this and immediately put myself on trial. Ungrateful. Selfish. Bad mum. What…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 18, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people, air conditioner, thermostat and text that says 'Come and unfuck your good girl conditioning with girlconditioningwithme me. We start 10ctober. camus6864 1h You should be cooking and cleaning. Reply Hide'.Video

Lazy. Selfish. Difficult. Attention-seeking. Too much. They only work if you’re still terrified they might…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 18, 2026. May be a selfie of one or more people and text that says 'This is what keeping a promise to yourself looks like when someone disapproves. find u interesting at a point but don't know.. have become tad looking for attention miss x Reply Hide Ithinkyou'vemistaken I Ithink you've mistaken me for a good girl'.Video

I wasn’t born like this. I practiced it. Every time you know what you want to say and swallow it, you teach…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 17, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people and text that says 'Midlife. You think you're 'coping' until Christmas puts every fucking trigger in one room. の'.Video

Christmas doesn’t create the problem. It exposes it. The people pleasing. The resentment. The overdoing. The…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 16, 2026. May be a Twitter screenshot of one or more people, timer and text that says 'Weight 1W 1M 2M 1Y CURRENT 72 kg Midlife fitness week 4: lost 0.8kg overnight. It was a shit. f 74 Aug 25 73 kg 73 You @ twasa was BIG WOW that big drop haha! Also just goes show how temperamenta scale weight can be and how easily impacted is! 6 09:53 That's a big drop By Week Sep 14 Sep 20 72.5 kg Sep 16 08:04 Sep1608:04AM AM 72 72kg kg'.Video

If you want someone you can chat shit 💩 with, I can recommend @alicelyoung . 😂 Week 4. Three weeks done.…

Photo by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 15, 2026. 9 items, carousel

I thought being visible would make me braver. It hasn’t. I still think, is that too much? I still want to…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 14, 2026. May be a meme of clarinet, tinfoil and text that says 'Turns out putting your head above the parapet can look like this.'.Video

@limitless_louie just hit 100k. I just hit 200k. But this isn’t really about the fucking numbers. It’s about…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 14, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people, microphone and text that says 'Apparently this is how ' launching a midlife podcast about shame'.Video

Sorry to my co-host @unashamedcoach Sarah. I know you’re the professional one, but sometimes “put us in your…

Video by Hayley | Midlife Witness | The Promise Method on September 14, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people and text that says 'Fuck being the only one. 200,000 women. I'm not making this smaller. PROUD Good'.Video

Fuck being the only one. 200,000 women. and yes, technically there are some men here too. My brain…

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