Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support

@bereavementmom

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Bereaved mom guiding families through child loss Turning my son William’s story into hope Founder, The Green House Retreat Comfort & connection ↓

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Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on August 30, 2025.PinnedVideo

Today is National Grief Awareness Day. 💚 Grief touches every family, yet so many walk this path without the…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 03, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people and text that says 'MODERN LOVE Remember that time I got to talk about my dead son on The New York Times Modern Love podcast? For people who want to support someone who's experiencing cc Say This to a Grieving Parent The writer Susie Shaw tells Anna Martin, host of the "Modern Love" podcast, how to support a parent going through the loss of a child.'.PinnedVideo

Never in my wildest dreams did I think I’d become a grief “expert.” Or maybe I should say, never in my…

Photo by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on June 01, 2026.Pinned

A few weeks ago, our family’s story was featured in People Magazine. It tells the story of William. Of the…

Photo by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 25, 2026. May be an image of text. 14 items, carousel

I’ve been on the receiving end of a lot of support since William died. Some of it I will remember for the…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 24, 2026. May be a meme of child, smiling and text.Video

The best gift anyone gave us after William died wasn’t flowers. It wasn’t food. It wasn’t something anyone…

Photo by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 23, 2026. May be an image of text. 6 items, carousel

Grief, I have some notes. Because apparently, even after all these years, grief is still finding brand-new…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 22, 2026. May be a meme of diaper and text.Video

One of the biggest things I’ve learned from parenting a bereaved child is this: I cannot fix his pain. I…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 21, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people, people smiling and text.Video

This smile. There was a time when I wondered what William’s death would do to Kai’s life. How could it not…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 21, 2026. May be an image of one or more people and text that says '비ㅋ 2 Can purpose help us carry grief?'.Video

What happens when grief becomes something you build with? I sat down with fellow bereaved mom Jennifer Levi…

Photo by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 20, 2026. May be an image of ocean, horizon and text that says 'I am building a beautiful life. ljust ljustwish wish he were here to see it.'.

I am building a beautiful life. I just wish he were here to see it. This is one of the strangest parts of…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 19, 2026. May be an image of child, bandage and text that says 'There's one tiny thing you can do for a grieving parent today. Say their child's Saythairchild'sname. name'.Video

If you zoomed in to read this, you already did something grief asks of us: You looked closer instead of…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 18, 2026. May be an image of ‎coffee cup, saucer, tea, cup, teacup, mug and ‎text that says '‎Wait. Why are YOU uncomfortable? I'm the one with the dead kid. ......qorl ...rorod,dia بود ง์ qorl tidday‎'‎‎.Video

Why are YOU uncomfortable? I’m the one whose kid died. I’m the one who has to live without him. I’m the one…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 18, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people and text.Video

I’m still reeling from this. To have my volunteerism recognized by the New England Patriots Foundation…

Photo by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 17, 2026. May be an image of text. 11 items, carousel

If you’re a bereaved parent, you know. You say their name. You tell a funny story. You answer the “How many…

Video by J.J. Duncan on September 16, 2026. May be a selfie of one or more people, hat and text.Video

Gratitude and love. Nothing but gratitude and love. Thanks to @bereavementmom and her boy Kai for being in…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 16, 2026. May be an image of ‎child, smiling, standing, hat and ‎text that says '‎You don't have to understand. Just don't look away. NIKE SB تد 語‎'‎‎.Video

I wish more people would try, just for a moment, to imagine what it would feel like to lose the most…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 15, 2026. May be a Twitter screenshot of one or more people, people standing, office and text.Video

I truly did not see this coming. And apparently, my face made that VERY clear. I love this reel because it…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 14, 2026. May be a selfie of one or more people and text that says 'Sometimes I'm jealous of your completely ordinary family. nobody's'.Video

Nobody warned me that grief could look like jealousy. Not jealousy of someone’s success or their beautiful…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 09, 2026. May be an image of child, candle, chocolate cake and text that says '! IMPORTANT NOTICE FOR BEREAVED PARENTS: Your grief has officially expired. ID'.Video

Good news! Apparently there’s a point when you’re supposed to be done grieving your child. No one tells you…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 07, 2026. May be an image of light switch, card and text that says 'What do you do with all the condolence cards after your child dies?'.Video

I couldn’t throw them away. After William died, we received hundreds of cards. Some were simple. Some were…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 06, 2026. May be a meme of one or more people and text that says 'What if your grief wasn't something to to hide, but something worth honoring?'.Video

Have you ever felt truly seen in your grief? Not comforted. Not fixed. Not encouraged to move forward. Just…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 04, 2026. May be an illustration of card, poster and text that says 'How do you make the worst moment of someone's life beautiful?'.Video

How do you paint grief? How do you take the worst moment of someone’s life and turn it into something…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 02, 2026. May be an image of baby, people kissing, Superman and text that says 'After my son died, the silence in our house was so loud.'.Video

Our house used to be so loud. Two young boys running through it. Screaming. Fighting. Laughing. Wrestling.…

Video by Susan C. Shaw | Child Loss & Grief Support on September 01, 2026. May be a meme of bath robe, robe and text that says 'POV: You're at first-grade Back to School Night and the other parents don't know your son has a dead brother.'.Video

Back to School Night. First grade edition. Sitting in Mrs. Hunt’s classroom, making small talk with parents…

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