Nikki Müller

One observation. One piece of psychology or research. One practical reframe. ✉️ If you work with people…

I’ve spent my career on stages and behind microphones, in rooms where big decisions were being made…

I moved to Switzerland 8 months ago and some mornings I still wake up and think: what have I done? 🙈 Not…

Some people thought it was morbid to host a ‘celebration of life’ before a high risk surgery while he was…

A week before his surgery, Monti Parungao posted an open invitation: “Come see me, perhaps for the last…

One word. From a language most people have never heard of. And it names something almost everyone has lived.…

A friend shared a really difficult loss with me and I panicked. Instead of listening, I tried to fix it and…

Third Culture Kids find their sense of belonging in people rather than places. 🌍 You recognise in the other…

There’s a specific reason I do the work I do. 🌍 When I was five, in a school where I knew nobody, a girl my…

Every transition begins with an ending, and every ending asks to be mourned before you can move through it.…

Most people treat a job loss like a logistical problem. Find the next thing. Update the CV. Move fast.…

When a reorg lands, most leaders picture their team receiving it as a single piece of news. A whole…

I spent my childhood learning to keep one foot out the door. By the time I noticed, I was doing it in every…

By the last day of this course, every leader and participant felt comfortable enough to be vulnerable. The…

Paul had been living with vision loss for years before he met Matthew. But it was Matthew who replaced every…

Before Matthew ever left, he had already felt the walls close in. In this conversation with @dr.dougota and…

The one question I now ask myself before making any big decision. It’s something my co-host, @dr.dougota…

That gap between the change and the transition is where most of the human cost actually lives. It shows up…

Grief, moves, layoffs all look like completely different experiences from the outside. 👀 From the inside…

There’s a moment in this conversation that lands differently from anything else. 🎙️ Ruth Van Reken…

Every inflection point in a life comes with a signal we don’t always have words for. 🤔 Research shows that…

Ruth Van Reken is the “mother tree” of the Third Culture Kid experience. Millions of cross-cultural kids…

One of the foremost authorities of the Third Culture Kid phenomenon spent decades thinking she was the…

The silent part of organisational change is the part nobody is touching. The people who stayed through every…